Our 1st 60 days of Marriage: Purpose and Partnership - Episode 4

Hey Purpose Seekers!

The curtains have been pulled back! Welcome back to another deeply special and heartfelt episode of the Purpose Finder Podcast! Today’s episode is unlike any other because I have the absolute honor of sitting down with my best friend, my partner in life, my love—my husband, Destry Wilborn. 💛

This conversation is real, unfiltered, and full of the lessons we’ve learned—sometimes the hard way—about love, purpose, and partnership. We’re peeling back the layers of what it truly means to walk in alignment with your calling while sharing life with someone who is also deeply committed to their own purpose.

If you don’t already know Destry, let me introduce you—he is a dedicated detective of nearly 30 years, a mentor to young men, and a passionate advocate for purpose-driven living. He is the founder of Men of Purpose; Journey to Self-Discovery, an organization designed to teach, train, and inspire abandoned and at-risk young men to step into their full potential. His work not only impacts lives here in Chicago but also reaches as far as Burundi, Africa, where he’s established a mentoring program and even launched a school to transform young minds and futures.

So when I say purpose and partnership, I mean it—because we both stepped into this marriage already fully immersed in the work we were called to do. But how do two strong-willed, purpose-driven individuals build a marriage that thrives, not just survives? How do we honor our personal callings while growing together in love? And what does it really take to create a marriage rooted in faith, trust, and shared vision?

Time Stamps:
00:00 Chicago Detective and Mentor Journey
10:01 Future-Focused Relationship Conversations
13:47 Crossing Paths on Life's Journey
20:14 Love: Necessary but Insufficient
23:02 Love's Purpose Transcends Challenges
29:58 Marriage Challenges and Choices
36:28 Encouraging Men to Embrace Counseling
42:10 Counseling Unlocked His Communication
47:24 Resisting Forced Change in Marriage
52:40 Navigating Power Struggles in Marriage
58:10 Supporting Dreams, Staying True
01:00:48 Leadership Dynamics at Home
01:09:53 Early Relationship Vision Planning
01:13:59 Preparing for a Future Partner
01:16:06 Aligning Vision with Personal Goals
01:22:54 Marriage Lessons: Purposeful Partnership

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Know more about Destry:

Destry Wilborn has served as a veteran of the Chicago Police Department for over 20 years. His experience on the front lines of one of the most dangerous, yet diverse cities in the country gave Destry Wilborn a veteran of the Chicago Police Department, serving for over 20 years. His frontline experiences in one of the country’s most complex cities exposed him to the deep impact of violence, igniting his journey to seek purpose. Through the Dr. Myles Munroe Mentorship Program, he found answers that shaped his passion for mentorship and empowerment.

For nearly a decade, Destry has been active in youth ministry at New Life Covenant Church under Pastor John Hannah, leading the Boys 2 Men program. His dedication to transforming young men into strong, purpose-driven leaders led him to found Men of Purpose, Journey to Self-Discovery (MOP)—a mentorship initiative equipping men to become self-sufficient and mentor others in return.

A former wrestling coach in Chicago Public Schools, Destry recognized early on that fatherlessness is a major issue in inner-city communities. He has since devoted his life to becoming a father figure to the fatherless, turning coaching into mentorship and mentorship into discipleship.

Destry holds a Bachelor’s degree in Applied Sociology & Political Science from Lewis University and a Master’s in Public Safety Administration from Calumet College of St. Joseph. He is also trained in apologetics, having graduated from both Frank Turek’s Cross-Examined Instructor’s Academy (CIA) and RZIM’s Emerging Apologist Program (EAP).

His mission? To inspire and equip the next generation to discover their purpose, potential, and vision—keys to fulfilling their destiny.

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